My Attractive Match theory has 3 pillars: 1. Self-Esteem 2. Energy 3. Responsibility Much more in the full episode linked in story and on YouTube, Apple and Spotify All linked in bio Updating website today with a new blog so you can read more about the framework. • • • • • • #relationships #relationship #relationshipadvice #boundaries #emotionallyavailable #emotionalintelligence #attachment #attractive #dating #moderndating #selfdevelopment

I help people who want these two things: to be the best person and to have the best relationship. After helping a lot of people in private practice and using my own framework on myself, I decided to help as many people as possible who have the same goals. You have to realize that you’re either getting closer to your goals or further away and it’s all determined by your decisions. And the decisions you make are the outputs of what you’ve put into you. Any problem you have can be solved by removing a faulty system and replacing it with a working system. The problem I specifically solve is personal and relational. In other words, I solve 2 big human problems: how to be a great person and how to have a high quality relationship with another great person. We take the system you’re currently using, remove what isn’t working, reinforce what is, and replace the way you’ve been doing things with things that actually work. Subscribe to YouTube to keep up with me in Phase 2 Info about Phase 2 on Blog on my Website Interested in working together -> Interest Form in my Bio • • • • • • #accountability #winners #selfdevelopment #selfesteem #boundaries #moderndating #dating #datingadvice #relationship #relationshipadvice

Phase 2 activated. New episode up on YouTube, or listen on Apple or Spotify - all linked in bio • • • • • • #relationships #relationship #relationshipadvice #boundaries #emotionallyavailable #emotionalintelligence #attachment #attractive #dating #moderndating #selfdevelopment

I’m back! I have a new system… To help with the fact there are not enough people suited for a serious, healthy relationship. I’m working on the Attractive Match. Listen/watch and tell me what you think! New episode up on YouTube, or listen on Apple or Spotify - all linked in bio • • • • • • #relationships #relationship #relationshipadvice #boundaries #emotionallyavailable #emotionalintelligence #attachment #attractive #dating #moderndating

Attractive Matches Pt. 2

I’m back! Attractive Matches Pt. 1

Key to Conflict 🔑 Couples Fighting Each Other, Resistance, and Lack of Cooperation

Full episode on YouTube! This episode is Last Call for Women Part 2: Social and Cultural Issues Season 12, Episode 5 Under the Boundaries and Grace playlist ✅ Like and Subscribe 🔗 Linked in Bio • • • • • • #blackmarriage #blackculture #relationships #dating #relationshipadvice #attachment #accountability #moderndating #familyvalues

The group that deflects blame to others and refuses responsibility for their life outcomes is the most miserable, misguided group! Understand - The less responsibility you take, the less out of control you have over your outcomes. This includes: - responsibility for all of our decisions (no matter what triggered us to do what), - responsibility for our impact on others (no matter how they’re showing up) - responsibility for correcting course when we receive negative feedback from people or the environment (in the form of unpleasant experiences). ‼️One of the GRAVEST mistakes an individual can make is getting into a relationship, especially marrying and/or having a child with an IRRESPONSIBLE person. 👀 Irresponsible people can be enticing at first! Fun, spontaneous, creative, intriguing etc etc. It’s all fun and games until your realize they won’t take life seriously no matter how bad it gets, they can’t be counted on to show up when it counts, they’re so creative they can’t decide on what to do or finish their projects, and what you thought was intriguing is actually just mysterious and confusing. I have a sign up in my bio for the “Preferred Option Community.” We recently had a Town Hall. Join if you want to be a part of events / connect with people who actually take responsibility for their lives and are going higher on purpose ⬆️ • • • • #accountability #defensive #relationshipadvice #relationships #relationship #dating #selfimprovement

I just posted a blog about 3 different categories of couples I work with: - Couples who are in incredible match. They have compatible values and goals, they are attracted to each other and experience pretty high levels of chemistry, they are overwhelmingly committed to the relationship. - Couples who are an adequate match. They lack chemistry but are basically compatible in values. They are able to be productive together because they know and embody values of teamwork and cooperation. - Couples who are a poor match. They are so far away from compatibility that any chemistry they did have is starting to wear off. They’re tired and turned off. Click link in my story or go to my site linked in my bio to read a little more about these couples. If you want help navigating your situation, making your good relationship even BETTER, or want to put your single self in position for the BEST type of relationship - fill out the interest form in my bio! • • • • • #relationship #moderndating #relationshipadvice #relationships #redpill #dating #datingandrelationships #datingadvice #emotionallyavailable #emotionalintelligence